Situationship Mein Valentine's Day — Wish Kare Ya Na Kare?
priya · 6 min read · 2026-02-17
14 February. Duniya mein sabse stressful din — agar tumhara relationship status "it's complicated" hai.
Wish karo toh — "isne toh relationship confirm kar diya." Wish na karo toh — "isko farak hi nahi padta."
Dono mein haaro. Welcome to situationship on Valentine's Day.
Ye article specifically un logon ke liye hai jo "hum friends hain" kehte hain par friends wali cheezein nahi karte.
The Valentine's Day Situationship Dilemma
Scenario 1: Tumne wish kiya, usne "thanks" bola. Bas. Ek word. Koi heart emoji nahi, koi "you too" nahi. Ab tum 3 ghante se phone ghoor rahe ho.
Scenario 2: Usne wish kiya with a heart emoji. Ab tum Google pe search kar rahe ho: "does heart emoji mean love or friendship?" Bhai.
Scenario 3: Kisi ne kisi ko wish nahi kiya. Dono phone check kar rahe hain. Dono wait kar rahe hain. Koi pehle nahi karega. Ego wins, love loses.
Scenario 4: Usne Instagram story daali — "single and happy." Par kal raat tak toh tumse call pe tha. Kya chal raha hai bhai?
Real Talk: Valentine's Day Ka Actual Use
Valentine's Day ek perfect excuse hai DTR conversation ke liye. DTR = Define The Relationship.
Ye bolo: "Dekh, Valentine's Day hai. Main tujhse puchna chahti/chahta hoon — hum hain kya? Mujhe clearly batao, kyunki main assume nahi karna chahti/chahta."
Ye mat bolo: "Toh aaj Valentine's hai... haha... waise... hum kya hain? 😅"
Difference samjhe? Pehla confident hai. Dusra passive-aggressive.
Unka response tumhe 3 cheezein batayega: 1. Woh ready hain commitment ke liye 2. Woh ready nahi hain (par tum important ho) 3. Woh interested nahi hain aur free meal chahte hain
Teeno mein se koi bhi answer clarity dega. Aur clarity > confusion. Always.
Agar DTR Ke Baad Bhi Confusion Hai
Agar tumne clearly pucha aur unhone clearly jawab nahi diya — that IS your answer.
Jo banda tumhe chahta hai woh Valentine's Day pe confused nahi hoga. Woh plan karega, effort karega, bol dega.
"But maybe they're shy" — shy log bhi effort dikhate hain. WhatsApp pe paragraph likhte hain agar in person nahi bol sakte.
"But maybe they need time" — 6 mahine se zyada time chahiye? Bhai, MBA bhi 2 saal ka hota hai.
Tum deserve karte ho someone who's sure about you. Not someone who's "figuring things out" while keeping you as backup option.
Valentine's Day sirf ek din hai. Par clarity — woh forever ka gift hai.
Agar aaj raat ye sab dimaag mein chal raha hai — Priya se baat karo. No judgment, no "just move on." Real talk about what you're feeling.