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Breakup ek se hua, par dost sab common hain — ab kya?

About Mutual Friends After Breakup

Breakup tum dono ke beech hota hai par nuclear fallout mutual friends tak pohochta hai. Suddenly har gathering awkward hai, har plan mein yeh tension hai ki woh aayega ya nahi, aur tere friends bhi confused hain ki kiske side lein. Yeh situation genuinely draining hai aur iska koi perfect solution nahi hai — par kuch cheezein hain jo tu kar sakti hai.

Pehle — accept kar ki kuch friends uski taraf jaayenge. Yeh personal nahi hai. Jo friends uske zyada close the, woh uske saath raheinge. Jo tere zyada close the, woh tere saath raheinge. Aur kuch friends dono ke saath raheinge. Tujhe decide karna hai ki tu un shared friends ko accept kar sakti hai ya nahi. Agar koi friend tujhe uske baare mein spy karti hai ya usse teri baatein batati hai, toh woh friend safe nahi hai abhi tere liye.

Dusra — apne close friends se clearly communicate kar. Unhe bata ki tujhe kya chahiye. "Mujhe uske baare mein baatein nahi sunni hain abhi." "Agar woh bhi aa raha hai party mein toh mujhe pehle bata dena." "Mujhe judge mat karo agar main kuch events skip karun." Clear communication se misunderstandings kam hoti hain.

Teesra — group hangouts mein maturity dikhaa. Agar tum dono ek jagah ho — shaadi mein, birthday party mein, Diwali gathering mein — toh drama create mat kar. Polite reh, minimal interaction rakh, aur apne logon ke saath enjoy kar. Tu adult hai aur tu yeh kar sakti hai, chahe andar se gut-wrenching feel ho. Fake it for a few hours, ghar aaake process kar.

Chautha — nayi friendships bhi banaa. Breakup ke baad tera social circle chhota feel hota hai. Yeh perfect time hai naye logon se milne ka — office mein kisi se chai pe jaao, neighborhood mein kisi event mein jao, online communities join karo. Yeh mutual friends ko replace nahi karega par tere world ko expand karega.

Sabse important — kisi friend ko position mein mat daal ki woh choose kare. "Ya main ya woh" — yeh ultimatum unfair hai. Friends ke apne relationships hain dono ke saath. Agar koi friend tere ex ke saath hangout karta hai toh uska matlab yeh nahi ki woh tujhse against hai. Jitna tu possessive hogi friendships ke baare mein, utna zyada push away hoga. Graceful reh, apne logon pe trust rakh, aur time ke saath equations naturally settle ho jayenge.

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