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Block karein, mute karein, ya dekhte rahein? — social media breakup ka naya battlefield hai

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Block karun ya nahi? Unfollow karun ya just mute? Stories dekhni band karun par profile kabhi kabhi check karun? — Social media breakup ke baad ek literal minefield hai aur har decision loaded feel hota hai. Main tujhe simple baat batati hoon — jo option tera mental peace protect kare, woh sahi option hai.

Ideally — mute ya unfollow kar. Block karna ek strong move hai aur agar tujhe lagta hai zaruri hai toh bilkul kar, par kuch logon ke liye block karna "I still care enough to block" jaisa feel hota hai. Mute karna quietly hatane jaisa hai — uski posts nahi dikheingi, uski stories nahi dikheingi, par drama bhi nahi hoga. Practically woh exist hi nahi karega tere feed mein.

Ab teri posting strategy — kya tu post karna band kare? Bilkul nahi. Par "revenge posting" se bach. Woh extra hot selfie jo tu sirf isliye daal rahi hai ki woh dekhe aur realize kare ki usne kya khoya — yeh short-term ego boost hai par long-term mein tu uske reactions pe dependent reh jaayegi. "Usne story dekhi ya nahi?" "Usne like kiya ya nahi?" — yeh naya obsession ban jaayega.

Post woh jo genuinely tere liye hai. Naye cafe gayi? Post kar. Friends ke saath trip pe gayi? Post kar. Par check kar apna intention — "Main yeh isliye post kar rahi hoon kyunki main genuinely share karna chahti hoon" vs "Main yeh isliye post kar rahi hoon ki usse dikhana hai ki main khush hoon." Pehla wala healthy hai, dusra performance hai.

Sad posting bhi avoid kar — cryptic quotes, "some people don't deserve good hearts," woh sab. Tera pain valid hai par social media pe passive aggressive hona tujhe petty dikhayega aur usse weapon bhi de dega yeh bolne ke liye ki "dekho kitna drama kar rahi hai." Apna pain privately process kar.

Digital detox try kar — puri social media se nahi toh at least 2-3 din. Phone rakh, bahar jaa, real life jee. Tu dekhegi ki bina screen ke duniya kitni different lagti hai. Tera anxiety kam hoga, tera sleep better hoga, aur tera brain ko actual rest milega.

Aur mutual friends ki posts? Woh bhi briefly mute kar agar unke posts mein tera ex dikhe. Tu overreacting nahi hai — tu apni mental health protect kar rahi hai. Social media ek tool hai — tujhe control karna hai ki tu isse kaise use karti hai, na ki woh tujhe control kare. Apne rules bana, apni boundaries set kar, aur apne peace ko sabse upar rakh.

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