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Uska naya relationship status dekhke pet mein jo punch lagta hai na — I know that feeling. Chahe tujhe kisi ne bataya ho ya tune khud social media pe dekha ho, yeh information ek second mein teri saari healing undo kar deti hai. Suddenly tu wapas day one pe aa jaati hai. Par actually, tu day one pe nahi hai — tera brain bas yeh process kar raha hai.

Pehli cheez samajh — uska move on karna tera rejection nahi hai. Log different speeds pe move karte hain. Kuch log jaldi naya relationship dhundh lete hain kyunki woh akele nahi reh sakte — yeh strength nahi hai, yeh avoidance hai. Kuch log rebound mein jaate hain kyunki woh apni feelings face nahi karna chahte. Uska naya relationship happy ending nahi hai necessarily — yeh uski coping mechanism ho sakti hai.

Par tujhe uski story se koi matlab nahi rakhna hai. Tera focus tere pe hona chahiye. Aur abhi tera kaam yeh hai ki yeh information digest kare aur apne emotions process kare. Rona hai toh ro. Gussa hai toh pillow maar. Ek friend ko call kar aur vent kar. Par usse ya uski nayi partner ko message mat kar — kuch bhi productive nahi niklega.

Ab information diet pe jaa. Uska profile block kar — temporarily, permanently, tera choice. Par abhi tere liye yeh information poison hai. Common friends se bol ki tujhe updates nahi chahiye. Agar koi unsolicited bataye toh usse rok — "Mujhe nahi sunna hai, please." Teri healing teri priority hai.

Comparison ka trap avoid kar. "Woh usse zyada khush hai," "Woh usse better treat kar raha hai," "Main usse pretty nahi hoon" — yeh sab stories hain jo tera brain bana raha hai based on zero evidence. Tu unki relationship nahi jaanti. Social media pe sab acha dikhta hai — tujhe bhi pata hai apni relationship mein kitni cheezein thi jo bahar se dikhti nahi thi.

Ek sach jo hard hai par sunna zaroori hai — uska move on karna actually tera freedom hai. Jab tak tu hope rakhti thi ki woh wapas aayega, tu stuck thi. Ab jab woh clearly move on kar chuka hai, toh tu bhi free hai — apne liye jeene ke liye, nayi possibilities explore karne ke liye. Yeh door close hua hai, par tere liye windows khul rahe hain. Abhi dard hoga, par ek din tu peeche dekhegi aur realize karegi ki yeh moment teri turning point thi.

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