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Office mein boss, ghar mein saas — working woman ka double shift reality

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Tu subah 6 baje uthti hai, tiffin banati hai, bachhe ko school bhejti hai, office jaati hai, 8-9 ghante kaam karti hai, ghar aake dinner banati hai, bachhe ka homework karaati hai, aur raat ko "Kal kya banana hai?" sochte hue soti hai. Aur phir koi bol deta hai — "Tum toh kuch karti hi nahi, office jaati ho bas." Working woman ka life Indian family mein double shift hai — aur appreciation zero.

Pehle — tera frustration 100% valid hai. Tu do full-time jobs kar rahi hai — office ki aur ghar ki. Aur dono jagah se expectations hain par support kahin se nahi. Office mein "Work-life balance rakho" aur ghar mein "Ghar toh sambhalna hi padega." Tu sandwiched hai aur thak gayi hai.

Ab kya karein? Sabse pehle — "Main sab kar sakti hoon" ka myth tod. Tu sab nahi kar sakti — aur tujhe karna bhi nahi chahiye. Kuch cheezein delegate karni padegi, kuch chhodni padegi, aur kuch ke standards lower karne padenge. Ghar roz vacuum nahi hua toh duniya nahi khatam hogi. Bachhe ko ek din Maggi kha li toh malnutrition nahi hoga.

Doosra — husband se clear conversation kar. "Main aur tu dono kamate hain toh ghar ki responsibility bhi dono ki hai." Specific tasks divide kar — "Tu Monday-Wednesday dinner banega, main Thursday-Saturday." Ya "Bachhe ka homework tera department hai." Vague "help kar" se kuch nahi hota — specific delegation karo.

Teesra — paid help lo agar afford kar sakti ho. Maid, cook, nanny — yeh luxury nahi hai working woman ke liye, yeh necessity hai. Agar saas ya mummy bole "Humne toh sab khud kiya" — toh bol "Aap ki generation mein mothers mostly homemakers thi. Main dono kar rahi hoon toh mujhe help chahiye." Comparison invalid hai.

Chautha — office mein bhi apni boundaries rakh. Late sitting har din zaroori nahi hai. "Main 6 baje nikalti hoon" — yeh bol aur follow kar. Agar boss problem kare toh apna work output dikha — "Mera kaam time pe hota hai, late baithna productivity nahi hai." Performance se judge hona chahiye, seat-time se nahi.

Aur sabse zaroori — guilt chhod. Tu achhi maa hai agar tu kaam karti hai. Tu achhi bahu hai agar tu kitchen mein 4 ghante nahi deti. Tu achhi wife hai agar tu thak ke so jaati hai. Tu achhi insaan hai agar tu apne liye 30 minute nikalti hai. Guilt ek useless emotion hai jo tujhe kuch achieve karne nahi deta — sirf exhaust karta hai.

Tu ek warrior hai — literally. Aur warriors ko rest chahiye. Apne aap ko woh rest dene ki permission de.

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