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Ek tarfa pyaar ka dard alag hai — kuch toota nahi par phir bhi dard hai

About One-Sided Love Recovery

One-sided love ka dard alag hota hai kyunki yahan breakup bhi nahi hota — bus ek realization hota hai ki jo tu feel karti hai woh saamne wala feel nahi karta. Koi fight nahi, koi closure nahi, koi clear ending nahi. Bas ek silent heartbreak jo tu akele jheli hai. Aur sab bolte hain "usne toh kuch kiya bhi nahi tha" — haan, but tere feelings real the na? Toh tera pain bhi real hai.

Pehle accept kar ki one-sided love mein bhi grief hota hai. Tu ek future mourn kar rahi hai jo sirf tere imagination mein tha — par us imagination mein tu bahut invested thi. Woh plans, woh fantasies, woh "agar woh haan bol deta toh" — yeh sab real emotions hain. Sirf isliye ki woh reciprocated nahi the doesn't mean woh feel nahi hue.

Ab sabse mushkil part — usse idealizing band kar. One-sided love mein hum saamne wale ko pedestal pe rakh dete hain kyunki humein reality check kabhi milta nahi. Relationship mein tujhe uski flaws dikhti — morning breath, mood swings, annoying habits. Par one-sided love mein tu sirf uska best version dekhti hai. Tu ek character se pyaar karti hai, complete person se nahi.

Practically — distance le. Agar woh tere circle mein hai toh usse avoid karna mushkil hai par interaction minimize kar. Usse zyada akele mat mil, uski har baat pe available mat ho, usse special treatment dena band kar. Tu uski friend ban sakti hai par pehle apne feelings ko settle hone de. Abhi friendship bhi painful hogi.

Social media pe usse mute kar. Uski har post dekhke tu interpret karti hai — "Yeh mere liye tha?" "Iska kya matlab hai?" — yeh overthinking teri healing slow karti hai. Out of sight, out of mind — literally.

Apni energy redirect kar. Woh time aur emotional energy jo tu us pe spend karti thi, usse apne pe lagaa. Agar din mein 2 ghante uske baare mein sochti thi, toh woh 2 ghante kisi productive cheez mein daal. Workout kar, skill seekh, book padh, naye log mil. Tera brain gradually us person ki jagah naye experiences se fill hoga.

Aur sabse important — samajh ki rejection tera worth define nahi karti. Uska tujhse pyaar na hona tere mein koi kami nahi hai. Chemistry dono taraf honi chahiye — agar nahi hai toh tera fault nahi hai. Tu deserving hai love ki — par us love ki jo tere paas wapas bhi aaye. One-sided love beautiful hai poetry mein, par real life mein tu two-sided love deserve karti hai. Aur woh tujhe milega — par pehle yeh chapter close kar.

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