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Naye insaan se purane dard bharne ki koshish — kya yeh rebound hai ya real?

About Rebound Relationship

Breakup ke turant baad kisi aur mein interest aa gaya? Ya dating apps pe swipe karna start kar diya? Ya koi purana friend suddenly attractive lagne laga? Yeh rebound hai, aur main tujhe judge nahi karungi — par tujhe samajhna zaroori hai ki tu kya kar rahi hai aur kyun.

Rebound ek painkiller hai. Jaise headache mein Crocin leti hai na — pain temporarily gayab ho jaata hai par root cause wahi rehta hai. Naye insaan ka attention, uska validation, physical closeness — yeh sab tere breakup ke pain ko mask karte hain. Aur jab tak mask on hai, tu actually heal nahi kar rahi hai.

Kaise pehchane ki yeh rebound hai: Agar tu naye insaan ko apne ex se compare karti hai — "Yeh toh usse achha hai" ya "Yeh uski tarah nahi karega" — toh tera focus still apne ex pe hai. Agar tera primary motivation nayi relationship mein yeh hai ki tu akela feel na kare ya ki tere ex ko jealous kare, toh yeh unhealthy foundation hai. Agar tu naye insaan ke saath hoke bhi apne ex ke baare mein sochti hai, toh tu emotionally available nahi hai.

Par main yeh nahi keh rahi ki rebound always wrong hai. Sometimes casual dating breakup ke baad tujhe yeh remind karati hai ki duniya mein aur bhi log hain, ki tu desirable hai, ki life goes on. Problem tab aata hai jab tu rebound ko serious relationship samajh leti hai, ya jab tu naye insaan ke saath unfair hoti hai — usse hope deti hai jab tu khud emotionally ready nahi hai.

Agar tu currently rebound mein hai, toh honest reh — khud se aur saamne wale se. Usse bata ki tu recently breakup se aayi hai aur abhi serious ke liye ready nahi hai. Agar woh phir bhi okay hai, toh at least dono ki expectations clear hain.

Aur agar tu soch rahi hai ki dating apps install kare ya nahi — ruk. Ek test kar pehle. Apne aap se pooch — "Kya main actually excited hoon kisi naye insaan se milne ke liye, ya main bas apne ex ke baare mein sochna band karna chahti hoon?" Agar answer dusra hai, toh apps rakh side mein. Pehle apne saath baith, apni feelings process kar, aur jab tu genuinely curious ho kisi naye ke baare mein — tab jaana. Timing matters, aur rush karna sirf tujhe aur us dusre insaan ko hurt karega.

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