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Ek din pyaar, ek din ignore — mixed signals ka matlab kya hai actually?

About Mixed Signals in Dating

Ek din "I miss you" message, next day seen pe chhod diya. Weekend pe amazing date, phir poore hafte gayab. "Tu meri life mein bohot important hai" bolke, phir kisi aur ke saath flirt karte pakda. Mixed signals — Indian dating ka sabse frustrating experience.

Sach bataaun? Mixed signals usually mixed nahi hote. Woh actually clear signals hain — tu bas woh interpretation nahi chahti jo saamne hai. Agar koi GENUINELY interested hai, toh uska behavior consistent hoga. Inconsistency hi answer hai.

Par chal, detailed samjhte hain kya ho sakta hai:

Scenario 1: Woh genuinely confused hai. Kuch log actually nahi jaante ki woh kya chahte hain. Recently breakup hua ho, personal issues ho, ya simply emotionally immature ho. Agar yeh case hai — teri sympathy mil sakti hai, par tera time waste nahi hona chahiye. "Jab tu decide kar le, bata dena" bol aur apni life jee.

Scenario 2: Woh interested hai par scared hai. Indian dating mein commitment ka matlab directly "shaadi" ho jaata hai logon ke dimag mein. Toh kuch log interested hote hue bhi pull back karte hain kyunki "itna serious nahi hona tha." Agar yeh case hai — open conversation help karegi. "Main abhi sirf dating ki baat kar rahi hoon, shaadi ki nahi."

Scenario 3: Tu uska option hai, priority nahi. Harsh par real. Jab usse boring lage ya lonely lage — tera number dial karta hai. Jab better plans hon — tu invisible. Yeh insaan tujhe "just in case" rakhta hai. WALK AWAY.

Scenario 4: Woh narcissistic hai. Kuch logon ko attention ka nasha hota hai. Tujhe hook karke rakhna — compliments, flirting, future ki baatein — par kabhi follow through nahi. Usse tera attention chahiye, tu nahi. BIG difference.

Kaise deal karein?

Rule 1: Actions dekh, words nahi. "Main tujhse bohot pyaar karta hoon" par milne ka time nahi hai? — Actions bol rahe hain ki priority nahi hai. Words cheap hain, actions expensive.

Rule 2: Communicate directly. "Mujhe tera behavior confusing lag raha hai. Ek din close feel hota hai, ek din door. Mujhe clarity chahiye." Agar clear answer na aaye — clarity aa gayi.

Rule 3: Apna time limit rakh. "Main 2 hafte aur wait karungi consistent behavior ke liye. Agar nahi dikhta, toh main aage badh rahi hoon." Yeh ultimatum nahi, yeh self-respect hai.

Rule 4: Reciprocity check kar. Kya tu zyada effort daal rahi hai? Kya hamesha tu initiate karti hai? Kya tu adjust karti hai uske schedule ke hisaab se? Agar haan — toh balance nahi hai. Aur bina balance ke relationship nahi hoti.

Tu deserve karti hai koi jo CLEARLY chahta ho tujhe. Ambiguity mein mat reh — woh slowly tera confidence kha jaati hai.

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