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"Hum kya hain?" — yeh chaar words bolne mein itna darr kyun lagta hai? Kyunki Indian dating mein yeh conversation directly "shaadi karoge kya" jaisi feel hoti hai. Par DTR (Define the Relationship) ka matlab shaadi proposal nahi hai. Iska matlab sirf yeh hai ki dono log same page pe hain ya nahi.

Pehle yeh samajh ki DTR conversation kab karni chahiye. Agar tum dono regularly mil rahe ho (2-3 months se), physically ya emotionally intimate ho, par labels clear nahi hain — toh ab waqt aa gaya hai. Bohot zyada jaldi bhi mat karo (pehli date ke baad nahi) aur bohot late bhi mat karo (6 months ke baad toh definitely nahi).

Kaise start karein? Casual setting mein, relaxed mood mein. Ladai ke beech mein ya emotional moment mein mat karo. Ek achha opener hai: "Main tere saath jo time spend karti hoon woh mujhe bohot achha lagta hai. Mujhe bas samajhna hai ki hum dono isse kya maante hain." Simple, non-threatening, honest.

Ab, tere partner ke response ke liye ready reh. Teen possibilities hain:

Pehla: Woh bhi same page pe hai aur relationship mein aana chahta hai. Best case scenario.

Doosra: Woh confused hai aur time chahiye. Yeh okay hai — par "time" ka ek limit hona chahiye. Ek-do hafte, max ek mahina. "Sochne do" agar 3 mahine se zyada chal raha hai toh woh sochna nahi hai, woh avoid karna hai.

Teesra: Woh nahi chahta. Yeh sunna dukh dega, par yeh sabse honest answer hai. Is case mein, apne aap se pooch — kya tu casual rehke khush hai? Agar nahi, toh walk away. Usse change karne ki koshish mat kar.

Important baat: DTR conversation mein ultimatum mat do. "Abhi bata warna main chali" — yeh pressure mein liya hua decision genuine nahi hoga. Par saath mein apni boundary bhi clear rakh. "Mujhe relationship chahiye. Agar tu is jagah nahi hai, toh I understand, par main wait nahi kar sakti forever."

Indian context mein ek extra challenge hai — "log kya kahenge." Bohot baar partner define nahi karta kyunki family ko batane se darta hai. Yeh valid fear hai, par indefinitely chhupke relationship chalana bhi fair nahi hai. Uski fear acknowledge karo par apni needs bhi batao.

Tu deserve karti hai clarity. Confusion mein rehna exhausting hai aur tere mental health ke liye toxic hai. Pooch. Jawab chahiye tujhe, chahe woh haan ho ya na.

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