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Shaadi ke liye ready ho? — Pyaar hona aur shaadi ke liye ready hona dono alag baatein hain

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"Kya main shaadi ke liye ready hoon?" — yeh sawaal bohot log skip kar dete hain. Ya toh family pressure mein haan bol dete hain, ya "pyaar hai toh sab ho jayega" sochte hain. Par shaadi ke liye ready hona aur pyaar hona — dono BOHOT alag cheezein hain.

Emotional readiness check kar:

Kya tu apne aap se khush hai? Agar tu akele reh ke comfortable nahi hai aur loneliness se bachne ke liye shaadi chahti hai — ruk. Shaadi loneliness ka cure nahi hai. In fact, wrong person ke saath shaadi loneliness BADHA deti hai. Pehle khud ke saath comfortable ho, phir kisi aur ko add kar.

Kya tu apne partner ki flaws accept karti hai? Nahi "change kar dungi" wali accept — genuinely accept. Shaadi ke baad log change nahi hote — mostly worse hote hain under stress. Jo cheezein abhi irritate karti hain, shaadi ke baad 10x zyada irritate karengi. Kya tu still okay hai?

Kya tu conflict handle kar sakti hai maturely? Shaadi mein ladaiyaan hongi — guaranteed. Agar abhi ladai mein tu ya tera partner silent treatment deta hai, gaali deta hai, ya breakup ki dhamki deta hai — toh shaadi ke liye ready nahi ho. Conflict resolution skill build karo pehle.

Financial readiness — bohot log yeh skip karte hain:

Kya tum dono financially independent ho? Kya debt hai? Kya savings hai? Shaadi ke baad expenses double ho jaate hain. Agar dono ki income se comfortably ghar chal sakta hai — good. Agar nahi — toh wait karo.

Financial goals aligned hain? Ek partner save karta hai, doosra spend — yeh shaadi ke baad war zone banega. Pehle discuss karo.

Practical readiness:

Kya tum dono ne yeh discuss kiya hai — bacche chahiye ya nahi? Kab? Kitne? Yeh "baad mein dekh lenge" wala topic nahi hai. Yeh dealbreaker hai.

Living arrangements — joint family, nuclear, kaunsa city? Yeh sab clear hona chahiye.

In-laws expectations — kya tu jaanti hai kya expect hoga tujhse? Aur kya tu okay hai uss se?

Indian context mein ek extra check: Kya tu apni family ki khushi ke liye shaadi kar rahi hai ya apni? "Mummy khush ho jayengi" valid reason nahi hai for a LIFELONG commitment. Mummy ki khushi temporary hai — tera relationship permanent hai.

Last check — apne gut se pooch. Agar gut mein thodi bhi discomfort hai, thoda sa bhi "kuch sahi nahi lag raha" — RUKO. Wedding planning ka excitement aur family ka pressure gut feeling ko daba deta hai. Par tera gut usually sahi hota hai.

Ready hona matlab sab perfect hona nahi — matlab tum dono ne important conversations kar li hain, aligned ho core values pe, aur ek doosre ke saath GROW karna chahte ho. Woh readiness hai.

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