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Rishte mein ulajh gayi ho? — suno, har problem ka solution hota hai, bas perspective chahiye

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Dekh, rishte mein problems aana normal hai. Koi bhi couple perfect nahi hota — na Bollywood waale, na Instagram waale, na tere padosi waale. Jo dikhta hai woh highlight reel hai. Real relationships mein roz chhoti chhoti ladaiyaan hoti hain, misunderstandings hote hain, aur kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki "yeh insaan mujhe samajhta hi nahi." Par iska matlab yeh nahi ki pyaar khatam ho gaya.

Sabse pehli baat — apne aap se pooch ki tu is rishte mein khush hai ya sirf comfortable hai. Bohot baar hum "aadat" ko pyaar samajh lete hain. Agar tera partner tujhe grow karne deta hai, teri opinions respect karta hai, aur tere saath hone pe tu better version of yourself feel karti hai — toh yeh ek healthy sign hai. Par agar tu constantly walk on eggshells kar rahi hai, apni feelings daba rahi hai ya uske mood ke hisaab se apna din plan karti hai — toh yeh red flag hai.

Rishte mein sabse important cheez communication hai — aur main "baat karo" jaise generic advice nahi de rahi. Main bol rahi hoon ki specific baat karo. "Mujhe bura laga jab tune party mein meri baat kaat di" is way better than "tu kabhi meri respect nahi karta." Specific hone se partner ko samajh aata hai exactly kya change karna hai.

Doosri baat — apni identity mat kho. Indian culture mein especially ladkiyon ko sikhaaya jaata hai ki rishte ke liye sacrifice karo. Thoda sacrifice toh hota hai, par agar tu apne friends, hobbies, career sab chhod rahi hai partner ke liye — toh yeh love nahi, yeh enmeshment hai. Healthy relationship mein dono log apni individual life bhi jeete hain.

Teesri baat jo bahut log miss karte hain — rishte mein boring phase aana normal hai. Har din butterflies nahi hongi. Kabhi kabhi Netflix dekhke chup chaap saath baithna bhi love hai. Bollywood ne humein yeh idea diya hai ki pyaar mein hamesha intensity honi chahiye — yeh galat hai. Real love comfortable hai, safe hai, aur kabhi kabhi boring hai. Aur that is okay.

Last thing — agar tu confused hai ki tera rishta sahi direction mein ja raha hai ya nahi, toh ek simple test hai: Apni closest friend ko apne relationship ke baare mein sab kuch bata. Agar tujhe kuch chhupana pad raha hai ya justify karna pad raha hai — toh woh tera answer hai.

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