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Pyaar mein control "care" nahi hai — pehchaan toxic partner ke signs

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Toxic partner pehchaanna mushkil hai jab tu relationship mein ho — kyunki toxicity usually slowly aati hai. Pehle din se koi gaali nahi deta, control nahi karta. Pehle charm hota hai, phir slowly boundaries cross hoti hain, aur jab tak tujhe realize ho tab tak tu itni deep ho chuki hoti hai ki nikalna mushkil lagta hai.

Indian relationships mein toxicity ke kuch specific patterns hain jo normalized hain:

"Main tere bina mar jaunga" — yeh love nahi, emotional blackmail hai. Agar tera partner self-harm ki dhamki deta hai tujhe rokne ke liye — yeh manipulation hai. Tu uski therapist nahi hai aur uski life teri responsibility nahi hai.

"Mujhe sirf teri fikar hai isliye" — control ko care ke label mein wrap karna. "Yeh mat pehen, log dekhenge." "Us ladke se baat mat kar." "Itni raat ko bahar kyun gayi?" — yeh sab control hai, care nahi. Care mein freedom hoti hai, control mein restrictions.

Constant criticism disguised as "improvement." "Main tujhe better banana chahta hoon" — agar tera partner har cheez mein fault nikalta hai, tera look, tera kaam, tere friends, teri family — toh woh tujhe better nahi bana raha, chhota bana raha hai. Taaki tu usse bina jeene ki soch bhi na sake.

Public mein insult karna — chahe "mazak" ke naam pe. "Are yeh toh aisi hi hai" — agar tera partner tujhe logon ke saamne down karta hai aur phir bole "mazak tha yaar, itna serious mat ho" — yeh gaslighting hai.

Financial control: Tera paisa kahan jaata hai yeh monitor karna, tujhe kaam chhudwana, ya tera income control karna. India mein yeh bohot common hai especially marriage ke baad — "ab paisa mujhe de do, main manage karunga."

Isolation: Slowly tere friends aur family se door karna. "Woh teri achhi friend nahi hai." "Tere parents tujhe mere khilaf kar rahe hain." Jab tu isolated ho jaati hai, toh sirf woh bach jaata hai — aur tab uska control complete hota hai.

Ab important question: "Par woh achha bhi hai kabhi kabhi." Haan, yeh sabse dangerous part hai. Toxic log 24/7 toxic nahi hote. Good days aate hain — woh hi tujhe roka ke rakhte hain. Tu un good days ke liye bad days tolerate karti hai. Par sach yeh hai ki good days ka percentage matter karta hai. Agar 70% time tu dukhi hai aur 30% khush — toh yeh healthy ratio nahi hai.

Agar tu identify karti hai ki tera partner toxic hai — please ek trusted person se baat kar. Friend, family member, counselor — koi bhi. Akele is situation se nikalna bohot mushkil hai. Help maangna weakness nahi hai, strength hai.

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